Showing posts with label Experience. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Experience. Show all posts

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Cosplaying

Was out to run some errand for my birthday just now and I happened to see some cosplayers at the interchange.

To me, appearing in costume would always attract attention of many and result certain people condemning.

You may think, "why don't you ignore them?" or "why get so affected when you know this kind of hobby is bound to get criticism?"

Yes, ignoring them is one thing but can you imagine getting stares or even sometime get jeered at? It is definitely not something you can just simply ignore. Does going into cosplay means that as cosplayers we deserve to be laughed at?

We are not entertainers neither are we trying to be Japanese. We are doing this because we love Anime and we love Japanese sub-culture. Everybody has their own interests, it's just a matter if it is widely accepted by the community or not.



Once at a cosplay convention, I overheard a group of boys saying "eh! just go take pictures with them la, see they like so desperate to get photographed, we should help them!" and also "These female cosplayers are like whore, such a disgrace to human race".

You see, this is the kind of words I usually heard when I attend a cosplay event. Some people are not even scare to let you know that they are super disgusted by people cosplaying and would go close to you and do weird gesture at you.

Anyways, I'm not really bothered by them because since the start, I already know that cosplaying is a hobby that attracts lots of attention, both good and bad. So I live on with it~



It's not easy to be a cosplayer. For most people, their parents usually object their children cosplaying. Some reason being, it is an expensive hobby or they just simply do not like their children hanging out with a bunch of J-culture obsessed people. Luckily for me, my parents did not disagree and even offer to drive me to the different conventions I attend.

As the cosplay circle in Singapore began to grow, there are more and more people picking up cosplaying. This means that there will be a number of people who participate in the events without doing proper research and ended being bombarded on the internet. For me, I try to make my cosplay as accurate as possible. It won't be 100% perfect because some details are too difficult to achieve or may take a plastic surgery to look exactly like the character. So I do ample research and make sure that I'm not ruining the character I'm cosplaying. Like for example, the miku cosplay I did for AFA last year. I had a very hard time looking for the bracelet that she wore and have been searching for 2 whole weeks, sweeping through malls and online shops but I can't find any that is even similar to what it looks like. In the end, I have to DIY it myself. It's a lot of hard work but when you get praises from photographer and people who attends the convention, all this hard work is worth it.


 
Anyways, I've decided to get a proper photo shoot for my upcoming character. Yuuki Asuna from Sword Art Online. This is my first time going for a photo shoot. Hope I will be able to produce good quality pictures because I really do not want to destroy the image of Asuna.
 
That's it for today,
 
Till next time~
 
 
Cassandra



Thursday, May 30, 2013

Coping with BF serving NS


I once had a friend telling me this, "Out of all my female friends, NONE of them were able to wait for their bf to finish serving their NS".


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Well... actually in almost another 2 months, I would probably be his first ever female friend who does so.

Throughout this 2 years... definitely it's not gonna be easy for both parties, physically and mentally.
 


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From the day he got enlisted, to the day he POP, got posted to his units and lastly till he ORD.


 
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To many other who might not have been through this, you may think how difficult can it be, it's just 2 years!?

 

Technically, yes... 2 years is not a long period of time. Then you have lots of people coming over to tell you, use this as an opportunity to put your relationship to the test. See the relationship can last long or not… blah blah blahh.. =.=


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And.. if the relationship fails, people usually blames the girl. Saying things like, “she cannot handle a relationship well…” “Must be she had lost interest in the guy…”

 

Sometimes, that’s not the case. Let’s just use a very common term – It takes 2 hands to clap. Both parties need to work together.

 

Yes, the girl has to be understanding, understand that your bf is super drained by the end of the week; he can’t be entertaining you for the whole weekend…


But the guy can still choose if he wants to spend their time with the girl or not.

 

This is usually where most of the problem surface; the gf may think that after waiting for 5 days, they should spend their time together while the guy may think that he needs to charge up his energy and have no mood to go elsewhere.

 


Actually, the guy has a choice to do what they want. So don’t force them to act according to your command. They can choose to sleep or forgo their sleeping/resting/gaming (you name it) time and spend their time with you or it can be the other way round. By having the girlfriend being the more understanding party, giving more personal space to the bf.

 

It’s a choice of who is more willing to be the more understanding party.

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Speaking from the perspective of a gf, the only thing we can do is wait. You can’t stop your bf from entering the NS. So face the fact that you have to wait. And to cope with it, try to think positively. At least you have a little more time for yourself and at any point of time you really miss him badly, look at the picture you guys took.

Or you can take up a course to pick up a new skill. Anything to keep you occupied! XD



 

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Be sure that you will learn to be more independent as compared to last time; there will be times you will have to face things alone without the support of your bf.

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So good luck girlfriend!



That's it for today. Till next time~
Cassandra